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Post by Destiny on Aug 21, 2008 0:24:17 GMT -4
Need advice with anything in your life? Post it here and someone may be able to help you!
Please don't post any messages asking me to help you with your site or make one, I really don't have time. I actually want to make a Demi Lovato fan site, but I'm too busy, so sorry.
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Post by DLS LOVER DLS LOVER DLS LOVER on Aug 21, 2008 13:04:26 GMT -4
Thank you! I really, really need advice.
There's this girl. She's my friend but lately - I've been getting annoyed with her. She asks so many questions. Even though I answer them all, she'll be like "Seriously? Is that your final answer? No - Diane you can tell me the truth."
And once she gave me a book. Then she was all like "Did you like the book?" I'm like "It was OK. Some parts were weird-ish though." Then she went all "Really? No you can tell me really if you hate it. I won't mind!"
WELL DUH. Why would you take offense if someone hated a book that wasn't even written by someone she knew?
Another problem: She's spending too much time with me. I don't have time to practice piano, violin or do my homework. She's always calling me and asking "can you come over?" and stuff like that. I don't know how to let her down easy. But now she thinks I hate her. I don't! So how can I just get my life done without her being all "Follow me around" all the time?
RANT [LONG]: So during my sleepover with her (I didn't really want her to sleepover) she followed me around everywhere. I walk down to the TV. She follows. I walk down to the sofa on the other side of the room she gets up and sits right down beside me. I get up to go to the bathroom and she follows me and then when she realizes I'm going to the bathroom she walks and waits for me to finish whatever I'm doing in the bathroom. And creepily - I'm sleeping in (she never sleeps in) so then she waited beside my bed and STARED at me until I woke up. I got so freaked! And while I was doing my homework - she awited and like flopped down on my bed (messing it up) and grabbed my ALMOST FINISHED Rubik's cube and fidgeted with it. SHE MESSED UP RUBIKS CUBE UP. I was finishing up my homeowork and she just baisically snatched it up while I was getting to pick up my dropped pencil and she was all like "wow you're slow at this stuff". Hello? She's the one who still uses her fingers to count. And we're in the EIGHTH GRADE. UNNGHGHGHGHGHGHGHGH!
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Post by charlotte on Aug 21, 2008 22:22:29 GMT -4
im not really good with this kind of stuff but i will try to help u.... i think you should just maybe nicely ask her to give u some space, if u still want to be her friend just say, your a nice person just sometimes i dont allways want to hang out with you. I would tell her a few things that get on your nerves like following u. Also possibly tell her that you have made a commitment on some other things in your life like piano and violin. and also remind her of how important school is. ....maybe she can change a little bit so that she is not so annoying to you and yall could become better friends??
i hope this helps, sorry like i said im not that great with this stuff but i hope i helped, maybe some other people can also help u!! good luck
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Post by Destiny on Aug 22, 2008 13:03:41 GMT -4
im not really good with this kind of stuff but i will try to help u.... i think you should just maybe nicely ask her to give u some space, if u still want to be her friend just say, your a nice person just sometimes i dont allways want to hang out with you. I would tell her a few things that get on your nerves like following u. Also possibly tell her that you have made a commitment on some other things in your life like piano and violin. and also remind her of how important school is. ....maybe she can change a little bit so that she is not so annoying to you and yall could become better friends?? i hope this helps, sorry like i said im not that great with this stuff but i hope i helped, maybe some other people can also help u!! good luck Yeah, you should have a talk with her and nicely say to give you some space and give some examples of the things she's done.
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